Attachment Disorder (When Mommy is Narcissist) Part II

You may adore your mom and try to please her by immitating her, anticipating what she wants without her telling you, and doing her bidding...only to feel like no matter what you do, you cannot get her notice or affection.

   The narcissistic egg donor doesn't care about you, never cared about you and cannot care about you, yet for the rest of your life you may find out that you are making decisions based on trying to earn your egg donors acceptance. It is a lesson in futility...doing things over and over again believing that this time will be THE time...mom will notice and approve.

   Sadly, the wiring for love was never there in the narcissistic parent.