Saturday, May 20, 2017

Attachment Disorder (When Mommy is a Narcissist? Intro



Learn what being raised by a so-called mother who is a narcissist looks like.



Attachment Disorder (When Mommy is a Narcissist) Conclusion

Narcissistic mother will guilt=trip you, try to make you feel like the "bad guy" in situations, take take take and rarely to never give to you.

Narcissists are NOT actually mothers. A mother does not do the things a narcissistic female does.

A situation between a narcissistic egg donor and child is NOT a relationship. It's a manipulation, control and domination of one barely human being over an actual human being.



Attachment Disorder (When Mommy is Narcissist) Part III



Narcissistic egg donors use one-upping with their children.

Narcissist will try to outdo her child and punish the child for attempting to receive praise from others.

Narcissist will belittle you for being upset at their tormenting you.

   Children of narcissists often feel like they are going crazy. If this was you, think about putting space between you and the now-adult narcissist.



Attachment Disorder (When Mommy is Narcissist) Part II







You may adore your mom and try to please her by immitating her, anticipating what she wants without her telling you, and doing her bidding...only to feel like no matter what you do, you cannot get her notice or affection.

   The narcissistic egg donor doesn't care about you, never cared about you and cannot care about you, yet for the rest of your life you may find out that you are making decisions based on trying to earn your egg donors acceptance. It is a lesson in futility...doing things over and over again believing that this time will be THE time...mom will notice and approve.

   Sadly, the wiring for love was never there in the narcissistic parent.



Attachment Disorder (when Mommy is Narcissist) Part I

Thankfully, many people grew up knowing the love of their moms or mommies.

This is not always the case, however.

Maybe your mother or step-mother abused you, neglected you, or took credit for something wonderful you did.

Does it seem like your mother always becomes the center of peoples' focus even if you are the one having a special moment or day?

Do you get ignored and neglected when you don't please your mom?

Do the things you hear coming out of your mother's mouth seem odd, unfitting, threatening?

Does your mother seem to create her own versions of things that happen to try and make you doubt your own experiences?



You may be dealing with a narcissistic egg-donor who is not fit to be labeled "mother."



Watch this video series and learn more:

Wednesday, May 17, 2017

How to Take Back Your Life Conclusion

I discuss the notebook method in this video. If you need any help with any of the techniques please feel free to email me at DelusionDispeller@gmail.com







How to Take Back Your Life Part 3

Recovering from abuse requires pacing yourself and keeping track of every minute of your day till you find yourself healed.

This video mentions a couple of techniques I've used after my own abuse by a narcissist. It will work for you if you are consistent.





How To Take Back Your Life Part 2

How To Take Back Your Life Part 2



Here is more information about taking back your life after being abused by a narcissist. It takes time and effort and self-care to reclaim your identity.

A good idea is to alert your friends that you are leaving or ending the addictive, abusive relationship and ask them to hold you gently accountable to stick to your plan to end things and leave or boot the narcissist out



.https://youtu.be/HNZSkjcs1iM

How To Take Back Your Life Part 1

How To Take Back Your Life Part 1



If you have been abused in a relationship and are trying to get back on your feet this video will help you.

Based on the book How to Break Your Addiction to a Person, I will go over the steps to take back your life.



How to Take Back Your Life After Narcissistic Abuse